Hi, I'm Joan

  And I thought I could never let go of that married man. 

I was a woman of a certain age, and tired of being single. I had it all together in my life except for one area: my love life. 

After several years of break-ups, my self esteem was at rock-bottom. I was lonely. I was horny. My eggs were drying up. I felt like the last spotted banana on the grocery store shelf. Then along came a spider...

He was dreamy, he said nice things, he paid attention to me, but...... he wore a wedding ring. "Things are bad at home", he said. "We sleep in separate rooms", he said. "I feel alive when I'm with you", he said. I believed him and I crossed the line.

Now I had a REAL problem.

I was:

❌  was constantly thinking of him & ways to be together

❌  fighting the urge to text & call him at home

❌ trying not to fall in love

It was too late. What started out as fun became an anchor around my heart. 

After many times of trying to end it, I finally did. But it was incredibly hard. Years later I still couldn't get him out of my head. It affected my relationship with my fiancé and we broke up. I went on to meet a narcissist who emotionally abused me and discarded me. I cried for months, barely unable to function, and wondering once again, why does this always happen to me?  And then one day it occurred to me to ask a different question. 

How can I break this pattern of failed relationships?

And just like that, I met a life coach. 

 In a few short weeks I was healing at a rapid pace. and I met the love of my life, Chris.

The work didn't stop there. I had to learn how to keep the relationship. I dug in, learned the tools and did the work. But something was missing. 

It was all of you struggling with the same thing.

 That's why created Discreet Coaching.

YOU ARE WORTHY and you deserve a way to get free and let go of that married man forever. 

YOU ARE WORTHY  to have the life you want in spite of everything you've done.

YOU ARE WORTHY because YOU ARE HUMAN